Courage: The Cure For Complacency

courageYou were born with courage. It was always with you as a child when you were naturally curious and always pushed to see what you were capable of.

Courage: The Cure For Complacency

When it came time to walk you didn’t question it, you tried many times, often falling until you got it right. You always ventured beyond what you were comfortable with and or thought was safe. After learning to walk, what did you do? You took it in stride and then began to look around for the next new adventure… running, climbing trees, and eventually riding a bike. All things that required attempts, failures, and many retries before finally succeeding, and all the while you were developing your courage.

You will still make mistake in life, it is guaranteed. So how is it that after childhood and learning the elementary things in life, like walking, that you became afraid of mistakes and failure?

Why not choose to start thinking of mistakes as a feedback mechanism? Look at mistakes with the attitude of “Great! What can I learn from this?” This is how you live a courageous life because in order for us to feel alive, we need to strive to do things bigger, better, different… to get ahead.

Be willing to fail and to learn. Have the courage to break away from the pack. Confidence comes from a strong sense of self-worth. Instead of seeking that validation from others, start to validate yourself instead.

Rise to the occasion when new opportunities and challenges are presented to you. Believe in yourself and enjoy the satisfaction of learning new skills and mastering them. Complacency is when you stand still and do nothing but when you are willing to risk failure and embrace new challenges life becomes very fulfilling.

As you progress, never forget to celebrate your wins, no matter how small. If you are going to focus on what you did wrong at least be willing to balance that out by looking at what you did right.

Let go of the need to be perfect. It’s never going to happen. The need to be perfect only drives fear into the moment. When the time comes to execute at a decisive point you will balk if you fear being less than perfect. Strive for excellence, always, but let go of your need to be perfect.

Complacency is born from fear. Fear of failure, fear of things that are new, and even the fear of not knowing how to even proceed. Confidence, especially when confidence is paired with passion is the ultimate cure for complacency.

Remember, complacency kills. If you are not growing then you are either dying or dead.  Choose courage, growth, accepting new challenges in life, and then complacency will never be an issue for you.

Andy Wooten M.A. Counseling – A Certified Life Coach In Aspen Colorado

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